Having your own thinking is good. Thinking only for yourself isn't.
What we talked about yesterday is that sometime it's better to give to other people. It will actually make you feel better if you do it.
You know in the end, it's all about what Jialin was calling the "kind heart".
I really am not perfect. I tend to be too tense when there is a money issue, or when somebody is not polite. I also really don't like when people try to limit what i can do and i don't believe they have the right to do this (like the swimming pool guard). I am more than ready to talk about all of this, and I have no problem to accept it. I'm actually quite sorry when I act bad.
But when I tell you about being selfish, maybe it is not a good idea to reply to me "how about u ?perfect?". It is not about i-reproach-you-something-you-reproach-me-something (what they call in english tit-for-tat). I am not looking to make you feel inferior, to destroy you, or to attack you. I just want to work out the problems we have. To do that we need to genuinely accept them at first. You just need to accept that you cannot always be right (and neither can i) and that sometime other people may tell things which are really important for you.
''I also really don't like when people try to limit what i can do and i don't believe they have the right to do this'' we are totaly the same kinds of person!!
so when you want to force me to do something i don't like it especially when you use the other brain to think...
BY THE WAY DO NOT TALK ABOUT Jialin to me i don't like him at all he has no right to say anything about me!!!
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u said im a selfish girl
how about u ?perfect?
u always lead me following ur way
and im called selfish
cuz i have my own thinking?
i thought u used the word "selfish"
make me feel u r a real selfish guy??!!
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所以是...
龜笑鱉無尾。
talk slowly, and more peace。
沒錯
就是龜笑鱉沒尾
五十步笑百步
半斤八兩
一個巴掌拍不響
事情就是這麼簡單
如此而已
Having your own thinking is good.
Thinking only for yourself isn't.
What we talked about yesterday is that sometime it's better to give to other people. It will actually make you feel better if you do it.
You know in the end, it's all about what Jialin was calling the "kind heart".
I really am not perfect. I tend to be too tense when there is a money issue, or when somebody is not polite. I also really don't like when people try to limit what i can do and i don't believe they have the right to do this (like the swimming pool guard).
I am more than ready to talk about all of this, and I have no problem to accept it. I'm actually quite sorry when I act bad.
But when I tell you about being selfish, maybe it is not a good idea to reply to me "how about u ?perfect?".
It is not about i-reproach-you-something-you-reproach-me-something (what they call in english tit-for-tat). I am not looking to make you feel inferior, to destroy you, or to attack you. I just want to work out the problems we have.
To do that we need to genuinely accept them at first. You just need to accept that you cannot always be right (and neither can i) and that sometime other people may tell things which are really important for you.
''I also really don't like when people try to limit what i can do and i don't believe they have the right to do this''
we are totaly the same kinds of person!!
so when you want to force me to do something
i don't like it
especially when you use the other brain to think...
BY THE WAY
DO NOT TALK ABOUT Jialin to me
i don't like him at all
he has no right to say anything about me!!!
兩個自私小孩吵架耶!
你們以後應該都要用網路吵架
比較不會太嗆!
真的平和很多。
我相離棄屍...應該還久。
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